Recently I discovered that some ladies may consider me boring. I understand why they would think that, I mean I dont go out or like to be out amongst people. I have been trying to brake this slump for a while but I just dont see the point to spend money around fake people who smile in your face and stab you in the back at the same time. I dont see the point in going to establishments who will only tolerate certain races on certain days and giving them my money. I dont need to be seen to be felt. I am also Jaded, I have been going out since I was 15 and I cant remember the last time I paid for entry into any venue. One of the perks of the life I live, i guess.
This actually ties into a Trending Topic on Twitter from earlier this week, #imattractedto . Like I said on twitter after reading some of things that women on twitter said leads me to the conculsion that neither sex knows knows what they need. We know what we like and want when it comes to everything in life… yet we rarely accept the fact we what we need is not the same thing. The sooner we understand this, our quality of lives will improve. Could you imagine not being depressed over something you want and accepting what you have? Jealousy and hating would be at record lows.
Im not saying accepting anything that comes your way, but understand that by limiting your options by only exploring what you are attracted too, you will considerably limit how far you can go and potentially greater happiness. If washed up on a island by yourself and you only explore what may look familiar to you and you get comfortable… you may miss the Resort on the other side.
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MicrosoftWord!! I feel ya on the first paragraph and I'm trying to accept the rest of what u said…I been trying to for a while now. I'm tired of wasting time aggravated over somethin I have no control over.
Love's a bitch,it bites u once be pissed…bites u twice,don't stand around waiting 4 it to calm down. Throw it a stick n close that door!
LOL.
Unfortunately, while your reasoning for not going out and spending money or being around fake people makes practical sense, we are all motivated by what we are attracted to. If you meet a lady and talk about her to your friends, do you refer to her as “the young lady with beautiful mind” or “the young lady with the fat ass” for example? When you talk to her, do you remind her how much you appreciate her love for the ecosystem or do you constantly remind her how attractive, sexy, and or beautiful she is FIRST? You very well may not actually be boring, but only you would know that if you don't go out. Getting out of a slump is one thing but understand your own reasoning. If you go out, what is your expectation? To be around fake people and pretend to care? (lol) Why compromise your beliefs? Do what makes you happy. And if “she” makes you happy, then great. Its okay to sacrifice for someone you care about. But expect her to do the same. Secret: A woman knows very quickly if she wants to be with you or not. Be careful that you aren't being used to fulfill your woman's need for love while she is using someone else to impress her girlfriends with. If you want to change someone's behavior, the first step is to change your own. Perhaps then, she'll make a reservation at your resort. Good luck…
I know u don't I?
Maybe. What's your name?
Tyrrell. U in Waterbury right?
I hope my comments were helpful.
Lol. Still the same. Smdh.