Opinion: Value your Vagina

I can recall my mother telling me on numorous occassions, “Boy cut off those damn lights I aint made of money.” I can also remember my mom getting upset with me when I didnt drive her car the way she thought it should be driven. You probably wondering what does this have to do with the title of this post? Well, the point I think my mom was trying to make is that I didnt fully appreciate shit because it wasn’t my money being spent.

The same can be said about relationships. Im going to let the ladies in on something. If you have sex with a dude too soon after first meeting that gentleman you will probably either be put in the peace of ass catergory and/or  the quality of any relationship that may occur  will not be as good as it could have been. The reason is as simple as the reason I drove my mother’s car wrecklessly, I DIDNT WORK FOR IT.

Think about it in any context. Anything that you yourself work for or work towards is held in a higher regard than something that can easily be obtained. So if a dude dont have to put in work he going treat that vagina and you like a borrowed/rented car. As a side note, if you havent taken the time out to get to know someone well before engaging in sex or a relationship what else will you have to fall back on besides sex?  I mean if thats all you want so be it. I aint knocking nobody for nothing. Just pointing out something.

So ladies value your vagina.

P.S. | Some of all are silly. Do you know the power of PUSSY? Just watch Troy with Brad Pitt. That whole kingdom was ruined by one woman.

News: Recession saving marriages

Its hard to imagine that type budgets in households would help couples stay together. Guess what folks, divorce filings are actually down. I guess that old saying of “Its cheaper to keep her” is true. LOL. I shall post a brief snippet and a link to the full article on MSNBC.com when you

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Heavy Heart

They say that there is someone for everyone. Is that true or is it something that was made up to make those who cant seem find anyone that they care about feel better? It is also said that it is better to Love and lose then to not love at all. Do you wonder if the person who coined this phrase had experienced the draining of their heart when the one they love(d) no longer feels the same way or do you think that that person would like to revise their thoughts?

You can not chose who you like and/or love. Its one the many obstacles in life that man kind struggles to control. I wrote before about a young lady from High School whom I let slip through my fingers.

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Story: Diamond in the Rough, open letter to…

Funny Story, I recently came back into contact with someone I knew from high school. She was a friend who use to stay in my hood and went school. I always thought that this young lady was cute and very nice, but like most other stupid boys instead of looking at what really matters I messed with the young ladies with more assets. I was given numerous chances to make my move if you will. No not the move of sexual activity because she was not that type of chick, but the move of getting to know a really sweet person.

Fast forward a few years ago and I run into her mother who tells me that her daughter is going to college out of state amongst other great things. I also hear rumors around the block that she has really grown into herself and is drop dead fine.

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Scandal: Letterman says wife "horribly hurt" by sex scandal

Comedian David Letterman said on Monday his wife has been “horribly hurt” by revelations of his sexual affairs exposed in an extortion plot against him and he apologized to staff of his popular late-night talk show.

The host of “Late Show with David Letterman” said in the taping of his Monday show that he will try to patch things up with Regina, whom he married in March after dating for more than 20 years. The two have a 5-year-old son, Harry.

“She has been horribly hurt by my behavior, and when something happens like that, if you hurt a person and it’s your responsibility, you try to fix it,” Letterman told audiences, according to a statement from his company, Worldwide Pants.

“And at that point, there’s only two things that can happen: either you’re going to make some progress and get it fixed, or you’re going to fall short and perhaps not get it fixed, so let me tell you folks, I got my work cut out for me.” annnd thennn

Music Feature: Lady Lux

(DOT, Brittny, Amaris)

I have the had the pleasure and/or honor of working with the multi-talented trio who are known as Lady Lux. Yes fellaz I actually know them and can sometimes get one or more of them phone in a month.Destiny has a way and reason for things happening the way that they do and I for sure wouldnt change one single solitary thing…. Well except I’d win the lottery and try to convince all three them to run away with me. Greedy right? Well damn can you blame me? There really is a point to this paragraph, wait for it… wait for it. DOT,Brittny and Amaris (Lady Lux) decided to become Ayebeclear.com’s 1st interview. The contents of which are available to all when you

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Drama: Moshonda Speaks Out

I’m posting this mainly because I’m pissed off.  Alicia Keys, to put it simply, is a homewrecker.  I love her music, but what she did is inexcusable.  What really pisses me off, though, is that had this been a certain other famous celebrity *cough Beyoncé cough* this would have been ALL over EVERY blog and news channel and people would be dragging her name through the mud.  So why isn’t Alicia getting that treatment?

After having a great evening with my son and enjoying some fun twit chat, I decided to sign off and get some work done. However, a few hours later I was advised that I should check @aliciakeys twit page. I’ve never reached out to her on twitter before. I feel our issues are a lot more serious than a website conversation. Not to mention that I’ve reached out to her many times in the beginning of this whole thing, as any wife would do. Unfortunately, I never succeeded in getting a response. The 1st time I meet AK, my husband introduced us to each other at an event. ( I have no choice but to call him my husband, until he is not anymore) In the messages that I sent to her (AK), I made it very clear that on the contrary of what she might be hearing, I am still married to my husband, living with him and just had a child. Its been two years and I still have not received a response. What I do receive, is constant displays of selfishness and disconcern to me and my son.

I was a fan of AK’s last album, we were both signed to J Records and I always checked up on her projects. I sang her songs and admired her for creating Superwoman and Karma, I would never deny her, her talent. I believed in her until I found out she was possibly sleeping with my husband. The affair was denied by both, until it was finally admitted months later.

Already I can hear some of you saying ” why are u blaming her, You cant make someone leave their wife, You cant break something thats broken”. Well, my marriage was not broken, as far as I knew we were celebrating our sons birth and getting ready to celebrate our 5 year wedding anniversary . Call it blind love, whatever. I call it being a devoted wife.. As far as me blaming her and not blaming him, thats false. Me and my husband have worked out our differences. We are in a good place as people and as parents. I accept his choices and I am comfortable enough with myself to move on. I am so very blessed in many ways.

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